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Post by Jessica on Jul 5, 2021 20:39:51 GMT
Yeah, that is basically it. They don't fall down, but they don't stick to me either. They basically fit like oversized men's jeans because my hips don't even begin to fill them out. And they smash my junk which I honestly don't hate. But I have never really gotten into jeans because women's jeans don't feel much different to me when wearing them than mens. I never give it too much thought as I wear them pretty much interchangeably. They look so similar that no one notices anything, and so the only difference is that I feel more comfortable physically in them. And also mentally, because even on male-presenting days I know I am wearing something that is theoretically female.And that, my friend, is the entire point. I TOTALLY get it now.
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Post by Maria on Jul 6, 2021 19:43:44 GMT
I never give it too much thought as I wear them pretty much interchangeably. They look so similar that no one notices anything, and so the only difference is that I feel more comfortable physically in them. And also mentally, because even on male-presenting days I know I am wearing something that is theoretically female.And that, my friend, is the entire point. I TOTALLY get it now. I guess if the fit isn't good though, then that mental benefit is perhaps outweighed by the concern over whether or not you are going to have a wardrobe malfunction that day?
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Post by Jessica on Jul 7, 2021 14:37:47 GMT
It just doesn't "feel" female to me. Which for me is more important than looking the part.
That said, I know what you mean. I do the same thing when I go on my movie theatre adventures. All the ladies clothes I have on are under men's clothes so no one knows they're there but me. But its a big deal to me.
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Post by Maria on Jul 10, 2021 17:45:20 GMT
Well I kind of did it. I went to the cinema, although I didn't quite do as originally planned. It's quite warm today, and I started worrying about "what if someone thinks it's suspicious that I'm going in with a hoody zipped all the way up and thinks I'm hiding food or something". Which I realise is ridiculous but... anxiety lol. So I kept everything else but switched into a male T-shirt, just in case I had to unzip. But everything else other than the T-shirt (including the hoody) was female clothes. I went and saw Black Widow - it felt an appropriate choice, as it has a female as the main protagonist. And pointless trivia - I was once on a plane with Scarlett Johansson 16 years ago
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Post by Jessica on Jul 10, 2021 22:13:05 GMT
Well I kind of did it. I went to the cinema, although I didn't quite do as originally planned. It's quite warm today, and I started worrying about "what if someone thinks it's suspicious that I'm going in with a hoody zipped all the way up and thinks I'm hiding food or something". Which I realise is ridiculous but... anxiety lol. So I kept everything else but switched into a male T-shirt, just in case I had to unzip. But everything else other than the T-shirt (including the hoody) was female clothes. I went and saw Black Widow - it felt an appropriate choice, as it has a female as the main protagonist. And pointless trivia - I was once on a plane with Scarlett Johansson 16 years ago Actually not the worst idea. I don't think that is crazy at all. People sneak stuff into theaters all the time. How was BW? My wife and I are both big Marvel fans but I don't think we'll get to see it for a few weeks.
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Post by Maria on Jul 10, 2021 22:54:56 GMT
Oh I know - I've done it myself many times before lol. I just felt a bit paranoid thinking that they'd search me like airport security or something. It was really, really good. It's actually the first Marvel film I've seen at the cinema. But she has always been one of my favourites, so getting to see her in her own film rather than as a supporting character to the others is something I've been looking forward to since this film was announced
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Post by Jessica on Jul 11, 2021 14:44:06 GMT
Oh I know - I've done it myself many times before lol. I just felt a bit paranoid thinking that they'd search me like airport security or something. It was really, really good. It's actually the first Marvel film I've seen at the cinema. But she has always been one of my favourites, so getting to see her in her own film rather than as a supporting character to the others is something I've been looking forward to since this film was announced Awesome. We probably will wait to see it until the end of the month.
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